By Susana Erazo, Krecyte Villarreal, CNN
(CNN) — Rigo Mendoza tearfully recalls the last conversation he had with his son Kevin before his death in early January.
The 15-year-old boy, who had been diagnosed with cancer in November, could only think about his father’s safety. “I don’t want anything to happen to you,” he kept repeating.
His mother had just been detained by US Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) agents the previous day, a fact that may have negatively impacted Kevin’s health, Mendoza recalls one of the doctors saying. “I told him, ‘I don’t want you to get upset. If you’re OK, your mom will be OK. We’re going to fight to get her home.’ But I think he got scared that she wasn’t coming back,” Mendoza says.
His wife, Arlith Martínez, who like him is an undocumented immigrant from Mexico, was on her way to work in Maryland on January 3 when she was arrested by ICE. She was held at a temporary facility in the state before being transferred to a detention center in New Jersey, where she was able to contact her husband hours later.
“She told me she had been detained, but not to worry because since she has no criminal record, she was going to be released,” Mendoza says. CNN confirmed that Martínez has a traffic violation on her record, but no serious crimes. Mendoza says that during her arrest, she was surrounded as if she were a criminal.
Mendoza and Martínez have spent more than 20 years in the United States, where they’ve raised four children, all of whom are American citizens.
Two days after Martínez’s arrest by ICE, Kevin died.
Now, Mendoza tells CNN, the couple is no longer fighting to remain the United States. Instead, they plan to return to Mexico with their three children – two daughters and a son – and the remains of Kevin.
An uncertain diagnosis
In November, Kevin told his parents he was experiencing knee pain. “The doctors said we should just put ice on it, and it would go away, but I wasn’t convinced,” his father recounts. So, they decided to take him to a hospital in Baltimore, where he was diagnosed with cancer. From that moment on, his life changed.
Mendoza and Martínez had been working at a fast-food restaurant until they received Kevin’s diagnosis. “I quit my job the second day after I got the news that he had cancer. I told my wife, ‘My child is more important,’” Mendoza says. From then on, he devoted his time to his son’s care and medical treatment, while his wife earned money for the family.
“When he was receiving treatment, his doctors congratulated us and my son because we were doing everything so well,” Mendoza says. When they received the diagnosis, he didn’t want to know what type of cancer Kevin had, but the doctors told him it would be “a battle Kevin could win.”
“When you hear the word cancer, it’s devastating, even more so for a parent,” Mendoza says.
The family never found out about the nature of illness.
CNN contacted some of the medical team at the hospital where Kevin Mendoza was treated but they declined to reveal details of his diagnosis for privacy reasons.
After Martínez’s arrest on January 3, Mendoza says he didn’t want to tell Kevin about it, but the news reached him through social media, and that night his condition began to worsen.
“I kept asking him if he felt OK. He said yes, and it wasn’t until around 1 a.m. that I realized he was sweating cold.”
Mendoza had taken Kevin to a local hospital on January 4, but given his symptoms, they attempted to transfer him by helicopter to another facility further away to receive treatment. However, due to the boy’s condition, they were unable to take off. So they remained at the local hospital.
Minutes earlier, Mendoza had a final conversation with Kevin, when his son asked if he would go with him by helicopter or car, because he was