By Scottie Andrew, CNN
(CNN) — In the course of its rapid rise, horny hockey show “Heated Rivalry” has escaped the criticism lobbed at many other sex-forward shows to become television’s naughty North Star. But how?
Tyler McCall, a journalist and novelist whose erotic fiction turns on the heat for users of the audio app Quinn, has her theories about how the show, which follows a pair of hockey players on opposing teams who fall into bed together (and eventually, in love), has done what its contemporaries cannot.
For too long, McCall said, “the sex scenes we’ve seen in film and on TV have felt gratuitous because they’re intended more to seem sexy than actually being sexy” and not “true to how sex happens in our real lives.”
Enter Ilya and Shane. “Heated Rivalry” follows them from the ice to the showers to the many hotel beds they share, with the nudity and creative blocking their graphic sex scenes require. But those sex scenes work for young viewers, who have gained a reputation for being less interested in sex, because of all the yearning in between, McCall said. The sex that follows is a necessary release for their pent-up desire every time they reunite.
(“Heated Rivalry” was produced for the Canadian network Crave but in the US airs on HBO Max, which shares parent company Warner Bros. Discovery with CNN.)
Gen Z wants love
“Heated Rivalry” has become a “fascinating case study into Zoomer sexual psychology,” said Chelsea Reynolds, an associate professor at Arizona State University who leads its Center for Media & Communities and studies the way young people react to sex in the media.
The show’s enormous popularity among Gen Z-ers challenges assumptions that their generation is disinterested in having sex and seeing it depicted onscreen. Reynolds thinks that hysteria over a “sex recession” among American young adults should be taken “with a grain of salt,” asserting that young people “do have a tremendous appetite for sexual content — they just want the sexual relationships that are portrayed to be healthy and to be consensual and to be ongoing.”
“I think that may show us as a society that Gen Z isn’t sexless or asexual, like some news stories paint them to be, but rather that they’re just more cautious and more practical about approaching sex and romance as a package,” Reynolds said.
On the whole, Gen Z isn’t having much sex. A 2024 report from the CDC that compared high schoolers’ risk behavior in 2013 and 2023 found that 32% of high schoolers in 2023 reported that they’d had sex. A decade earlier, that percentage sat at 47%. Even fewer high school students — around 21% — in 2023 said they were sexually active at the time.
But they’re still horny. They’re not turned off by all sex onscreen; they just want it to feel real and romantic. They want love, but they’re not doling it out to just anybody.
Considering the world events that transpired while Zoomers were coming of age, it’s hard to fault them for exercising extra caution around sex, Reynolds said. Many of them were in high school and college when the Covid-19 pandemic began, she noted, when it was especially risky, health-wise, to casually hook up and explore sexually. And without the abortion protections of Roe v. Wade, plus the legislative attack on LGBTQ health care, a lot of Zoomers just don’t consider the potential pleasures of sex worth risks like STIs or unwanted pregnancies, she said.
That said, Zoomers aren’t avoiding sex completely, but they do want it to happen