By Terry Ward, CNN
(CNN) — Feeling deflated because your New Year’s resolution didn’t make it out of January without flopping?
Join the crowd whose 2026 goals have already been taken out with the trash.
The second Friday of January has earned the nickname Quitter’s Day, with many likely abandoned by then — and a majority of resolutions failing by mid-March.
You may need to tweak how you approach those resolutions, according to Dr. Michele Kehrer, a physical therapist and keynote speaker based in Cape Coral, Florida. As she writes in her new book, “Brave Shift: 30 Mindset Changes to Transform Your Life,” bite-size shifts in your thinking can go the distance toward creating the reality you hope to achieve in business and life.
A goal shouldn’t be about changing everything, said Kehrer, a four-time cancer survivor.
“It’s about changing a few things that change everything,” Kehrer said, referring to the 30 “rules” that helped her overcome everyday challenges that many face — including divorce, a business venture and big life moves.
In a conversation with CNN, Kehrer shared how small changes can help you reach your goals.
This conversation has been lightly edited and condensed for clarity.
CNN: Is there one reason why setting a goal sometimes sets us up for failure?
Dr. Michele Kehrer: Often, when people make a big goal, they don’t attach a reason to why they want to accomplish it. Having that reason is big because when you don’t want to do something that’s necessary to reach your goal, you can go back to your reason. That’s often enough to propel you forward.
When you have your reason or goal, you want to attach an emotion to it. Saying, “I want to lose weight,” doesn’t really mean anything because it’s not quantifiable. So, you could think more along the lines of something like, “I want to lose five pounds because I want to fit into this dress because I’m going on vacation.” That hits differently. It builds your own accountability — and it also builds pride in yourself and your accomplishments.
It could be something as simple as wanting to be in touch more often with the people you love. You could take a note and stick it on your refrigerator to remind you of the people you want to call every week.
CNN: You talk about using a “magic paintbrush” in your book to help shift your mindset. What do you mean by that?
Kehrer: I know so many people who write out their New Year’s resolutions starting with a laundry list of everything they think is wrong with them — or everything they’re doing wrong. That means you’re starting from a negative headspace and mindset instead of thinking about how you’d like to improve. Instead, think about how you want your life to be different.
One of the shifts in my book is to think of using a “magic paintbrush” to create the life that you want. Imagine painting yourself a picture of what you want your day and week and month to look like in your mind. And then start thinking about what you need to get there. That way, you’re coming at things from a positive mindset and a place of inspired joy instead of the opposite.
We have 365 days in a year. Start by thinking about the one thing you would feel best about if you accomplished it and use your magical paintbrush to go after that one thing.
CNN: You refer to the importance of “cleaning up your own mess.” What do you mean by that as a mindset shift?
Kehrer:
Por Svitlana Vlasova, Anna Chernova y Billy Stockwell, CNN
Rusia lanzó otra serie de ataques contra Ucrania esta mañana, informaron funcionarios locales, horas antes del inicio de las conversaciones tripartitas de hoy destinadas a resolver la guerra de Rusia en Ucrania.
Seis civiles resultaron heridos en un ataque ruso contra la región norteña de Sumy, donde también se dañaron edificios y vehículos, según Oleh Hryhorov, jefe de la administración militar de la región.
Mientras tanto, al menos tres personas resultaron heridas en la ciudad de Jersón, en el sur de Ucrania, debido a los ataques rusos, informaron las autoridades locales.
Un ataque con un dron ruso contra un vehículo en la región de Donetsk, que transportaba a empleados de una central eléctrica al trabajo, causó la muerte de tres personas hoy, según informó el Ministerio de Energía de Ucrania.
Ucrania anunció el martes que había alcanzado la refinería de petróleo rusa Ilsky, una de las más grandes del sur del país, en un ataque nocturno. “El objetivo fue alcanzado, lo que causó un incendio en las instalaciones”, declaró el Estado Mayor de Ucrania en un comunicado el martes. Las conversaciones de hoy son la tercera ronda de negociaciones de este tipo que busca alcanzar un acuerdo de paz que ponga fin a casi cuatro años de guerra.
Las conversaciones de hoy entre Ucrania, Rusia y Estados Unidos en Ginebra comenzaron, según informa RIA, el medio estatal ruso.
Al iniciarse las conversaciones, el negociador jefe de Kiev, Rustem Umerov, agradeció a Estados Unidos su “participación y trabajo constante en el proceso de negociación”.
“Estamos trabajando de forma constructiva, con enfoque y sin expectativas exageradas. Nuestra tarea es impulsar al máximo las decisiones que puedan lograr una paz duradera”, declaró Umerov en un comunicado.
Las conversaciones están dirigidas por el enviado especial del presidente estadounidense Donald Trump, Steve Witkoff, y su yerno, Jared Kushner, por parte estadounidense.
Vladimir Medinsky, asesor del presidente ruso Vladimir Putin, encabeza la delegación del Kremlin.
Mientras tanto, la delegación ucraniana está encabezada por el negociador jefe de Kiev, Rustem Umerov.
Umerov anunció el viernes que se unirían a él varios otros funcionarios, entre ellos Kyrylo Budanov, jefe del gabinete presidencial de Ucrania, y Andriy Hnatov, jefe del Estado Mayor General de las Fuerzas Armadas de Ucrania.
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By Eric Levenson, Isabel Rosales, CNN
Winder, Georgia (CNN) — A teenage girl wounded in a shooting at a Georgia high school in September 2024 testified on Tuesday about the harrowing moment she realized she had been shot.
Melany Delira-Castaneda was 15 and working on her math book at Apalachee High School when her ear began ringing and she smelled smoke, she testified. She stood up and turned toward the door and saw Colt Gray, then 14, pointing a firearm into the classroom and firing indiscriminately, she said.
“I didn’t know I was shot, but I was. My body just told me to hold my arm,” Melany, now 16, said quietly through tears. “I was holding my arm and I hid between a pillar … between her smartboard and my desk.”
After the shooting, police took her into the hallway, and Melany saw two students who had been killed lying on the floor. She ultimately went to the hospital and was left with a gunshot wound in her left shoulder and continues to face emotional challenges.
“I feel like, just seeing what I saw that day just sticks with me, and not being able to trust certain people,” she said of the shooting’s effect on her.
Melany was one of several teenage shooting victims who testified Tuesday in the trial of Colin Gray, the father of the suspected school shooter, on charges of murder and manslaughter. Prosecutors allege Colin Gray bought his son the AR-15-style rifle used in the shooting despite previous warnings that his son was a danger to others, actions that constitute criminally reckless conduct.
The trial began Monday with opening statements and testimony from teachers, police and parents at the school that day who spoke about the horror of the attack, which left two students and two teachers dead. Nine other people were injured.
Colin Gray has pleaded not guilty to nearly 30 charges, including two counts each of second-degree murder and involuntary manslaughter. His attorney said in opening statements Monday that Colin Gray was unaware his son was planning the shooting and had taken steps to try to get him help.
“When someone conceals a plan, deceives the people around them, acts independently, the law does not allow us to pretend that the people left behind should’ve seen through all of it,” Hobbs said.
Colin Gray’s trial is part of a broader push to hold more people accountable for a school shooting, including the shooter’s parents and responding law enforcement officers.
This case bears close similarities to the trials of James and Jennifer Crumbley, whose then-15-year-old son killed four students in 2021 at his high school in Oxford, Michigan. The Crumbley parents were each convicted of manslaughter and sentenced to 10 to 15 years in prison. Their son was sentenced to life in prison without parole.
Colin Gray has remained behind bars since his arrest a day after the shooting. If convicted, he faces 10 to 30 years in prison on each murder charge and 1 to 10 years on each manslaughter charge.
Colt Gray ultimately surrendered to police and has admitted to the shooting, according to authorities.